Early Career Mistake: Lessons Learned

Written by Nawika Sharma

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My first job was as a school teacher at one of the prominent schools in my hometown and I lasted there only for a year. Fresh out of college with a master's degree in Education, brimming with innovative ideas and eager to put them into action. The vision was clear - to reshape the classroom environment by creating a more student centered learning experience and fostering an environment where teaching would engage and empower students. In my schools days I had suffered at the hands of the jaded system, and I was determined that no student in my class would have to endure the same frustrations and limitations.

I eagerly embarked on the new job and wasted no time in implementing my ideas in the class. As a result, my work was appreciated, it didn't take long for the principal to assign me additional responsibilities that overshadowed some of the older staff. This created a lot unintended tension and conflict. Looking back, I realize that I was naive to think that bringing about change would be as simple as having good intentions.

In my haste to implement my ideas, I neglected the most crucial aspect of working: building relationships with my colleagues. I rarely interacted with others, as I had no inclination to form social ties or align myself with any particular group. Furthermore, I was already burdened with a heavy workload.

As it always happens wherever there are groups of people, there will inevitably be political dynamics at play, and a school is no exception. While I didn't oppose or disrespect anyone, I didn't conform to the status quo either. This discrepancy added to the challenges I faced. This is where my master degree failed me as it did not prepare me to navigate through the complexities of the real world.

Nobody taught me the importance of establishing a support system in the workplace. It was my arrogance that I underestimated the significance of having a network of like-minded individuals. Through experience, I learned that we cannot be lone crusaders in our pursuits. It is essential to create connections and foster relationships, as they enable us to understand and address others' concerns, as well as clarify our own intentions. Forging these connections allows us to navigate through challenges, soothe egos, and demystify our true objectives.

Building relationships, communication, and adaptability are vital for success beyond academic qualifications and yet this crucial aspect is overlooked and undervalued.